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Having It All · Episode 10 of 10 · 23 min

The Verdict: Luck Was an Equal Partner With Effort

No valid statistic says how many women had it all, and the figure circulating online has no research behind it. The evidence shows that trade-offs were nearly universal and satisfaction is high anyway. The series' verdict is that where institutions refuse to underwrite a promise, luck fills the gap: the promise wasn't wrong, it was unfunded.

Who's who

Timeline

  1. 1963The Feminine Mystique and the Equal Pay Act open the promise era
  2. 1974Equal Credit Opportunity Act passes
  3. 1989Hochschild's The Second Shift appears
  4. 1993Family and Medical Leave Act signed
  5. 2009Stevenson and Wolfers publish their happiness paradox paper
  6. June 2012Slaughter's 'Why Women Still Can't Have It All' appears

Still debated

No research supports any 'percent who had it all' figure. Hewlett's childlessness numbers describe elite women only, and high late-life satisfaction scores are limited by survivorship and adapted expectations.

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